Mistress Ryder

If you are some distance away - I am SO worth the drive!!

Hello Gentlemen!

Who am I?

I'm a mature, naturally dominant, tall, strong and sensual woman. I enjoy being in control sexually. I love to give pleasure. I also enjoy delivering pain, if that is something you enjoy. Because even when I'm swinging a riding crop to hit your ass, if you are not having a good time, neither am I. My touch is very sensual and I love crossing the wires of pain and pleasure. I calibrate quite well and welcome newcomers who just want to explore. I also offer a unique sensual experience if you are not interested in BDSM.

Now let's talk about you...

Have you been fantasizing about being...taken?

Are you a man who has been in control his entire life, both personally and professionally? Do you dream of handing the reins to a partner who will take control and run the show? A partner who will seduce you into letting go and submitting to pleasures you've never experienced before?

Have you wanted to explore sexually but can't find the right partner to explore with?

Experience and skill are SO important when you are exploring new territory, especially when you want to give up control! All that...is my forte. Seriously. I love it all. I'm an expert. Skilled in Strap-on Play, Impact play, Bondage, and more. I'm quite talented, always sanitary, remarkably sane, and so seductive. I am ready to help you explore. Let's discover what the Venn Diagram of our desires looks like. Have I piqued your interest?

Incalls only

Located 10 minutes from downtown Ventura

No same day appointments

Screening and deposit required

The Misconceptions and Myths Around Pegging

05/20/2022

You are gay. Au contraire mon ami! The only thing that you can assume when a man enjoys anal stimulation is that he is a man who enjoys anal stimulation! There is a very strong connotation between enjoying anal stimulation and homosexuality, which is completely inaccurate. Any man of any sexual orientation can enjoy it. The area of the body that you enjoy having stimulated has no bearing on the gender you prefer to do the stimulating! You are weak. Some of the most powerful, assertive and in control men enjoy letting go once in a while and having their partner run the show in the bedroom. Sadly, most relationships don't offer you this, so you are in control all the time, and it gets old after a while! Don't confuse weakness with vulnerability. Vulnerability is essential to experience pegging, but actually requires strength, not weakness. Pegging is painful. If it's painful, you are doing it wrong. Anal penetration should not cause pain, and when approached correctly, can be a source of amazing pleasure. More pleasure than you have ever experienced, including more powerful orgasms, whole-body orgasms and even multiple orgasms. Pegging must be done like in pegging porn. Incorect again. If it floats your boat to crossdress, get tied up, beaten, and verbally humiliated, then rock on and enjoy all those things! But the reality is that pegging can be enjoyed as a very sensual experience as well. You are the one who ge... Read More